After some discussion on line, a guy* asked for a date, suggesting the next Sunday afternoon.
Me: How about 4 p.m. at Barista Brew Cafe in Davis?
[He didn’t answer, until the day after the date was supposed to happen.]
Him: Hey Gorgeous, I def would like us to meet. I find you very classy and sensual lady. think we will enjoy each-others company. Cant wait to meet you.
Me: What happened on Sunday? I was really surprised that you left me hanging.
Him: sorry, it was a busy day for me. request, can we meet somewhere in Sacramento? what’s up with you ladies of match living anywhere, but Sacramento? I look forward to seeing you Lovely.
Me: Is me living in Davis a problem for you long-term? Would we always have to meet in Sac?
[At this point, I’m worried he may not have a car.]
Him: oh no, distance it’s not a problem at all Lovely. It was just me. I got asked to go to Granite Bay for coffee the other day. Thought to myself, it got to be a charming lady in Sacramento..only looking for one 😉 ? I am eager to meet you. Hope to see you soon.
[Oh, you have a car, but I’m not worth the 20 minutes in it.]
[& then, later]: Cafe some day ?
Me: We can maybe set something up. I have to admit that I’m less excited than I was. It bothered me when you asked me to do something Sun afternoon but then didn’t even write to tell me you were too busy. And then in the next messages, you basically complained that the women you’re meeting don’t live in your city, which I thought was a bit tacky, and also not very empathetic, since none of the people I talk to are in my city either.
[6 days go by]
Him: when are you coming to Sacramento?
Me: At this point, I’m not coming to Sacramento.
*Readers may remember another guy insulting my intelligence after I told him we weren’t a good fit, since he expressed a desire for children. I had to send the guy described in this post a similar message, but rather than being offended, he said he was open to children but not set on them, thus paving the way for things to wrong for other reasons. 🙂
